Monday, November 29, 2010
Thanksgiving...and a song.
Now enjoy this little song I wrote about our trip home, sung (loosly) to the tune of 12 Days of Christmas.
On the way home to Utah, these crappy things happened to us...
1 terrible snow storm
2 hotel reservations made when we were about to give up
3 hours to travel from St George to Cedar
4 extra hours driving
5 bathroom/clean off the windshield stops
6 times I wanted to cry
7 cars flipped over
8 times we talked about stopping
9 cars off the road in a 1 mile stretch
10 was the time we finally got home
11 billion times I said, "Please be careful!"
12 hours to get home!
Monday, November 22, 2010
School
I love my school! I am really enjoying it. I love the way they teach us and that we already to so much hands on...Still on doll heads thank goodness, but doing it nonetheless! I love my friends there! We have so many fun people in our class and I have two great friends that I get along especially well with, Kirsten and
Chanel. We have a lot of fun! :)
P.S. On Tuesdays we can wear non black clothes if we donate two dollars to charity. Sometimes I crack and donate because I can't take the black anymore. My hair looks so long in the second picture! Wow!
P.S.S. I swear I do my hair without braided bangs most the time. I'm just trying to grow them out and sometimes it is just easier to braid them.
Saturday, November 20, 2010
outback
We have a fun day planned! Lincoln's 1st birthday party, BYU football, and BYU basketball (if I'm not too burnt out on sports!). Should be fun! :)
Friday, November 19, 2010
haircuts
These are my first two haircuts! The first is a square one length and the other is a front and side view of a triangular graduation. I am loving school and learning a lot!
We are leaving Tuesday around noon or one to go home for Thanksgiving!
I am so excited to...
-be with family
-see HP
-play games that we don't normally play because you need more than two people
-eat yummy food
-enjoy the warmer weather
-watch Elf
-get red TOMS ;)
Note to self:When someone says they won't make you buy anything, it means they won't force you, but they will sure try!
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Dear family
M and J
Monday, November 15, 2010
for the children...and for yourself!
The pictures she did for us are so great! I love them and I seriously suggest you take her up on this!
http://chelsyannphoto.blogspot.com/Sunday, November 14, 2010
a day for the books
So we go sit on the stand and remember our topic, gratitude. The other guy is going first so we are just preparing and trying to come up with scriptures as fast as possible. I was red and sweating like crazy but then I calmed down and I was freezing cold and clammy. Awesome. He ends up only leaving us like 20 minutes and both of us still have to talk and the Stake President wanted to say a few words and there was a song planned between us too that they ended up canceling. My talk was probably just five minutes long but that is really a the time we had. Jordan is such a great speaker he gave an awesome talk still. (He keeps making fun of my talk! You know it was bad then because he is so sweet to me!) Then while Jordan was talking, my sickness kicks in and I CANNOT stop coughing. I almost have in under control when this little lady on the front row offers me a cough drop so we had an awkward pass off there but I didn't care anymore. Is anything awkward at that point??
When the counselor in the bishopric was announcing the program, he said something about "a look on your face when you see you are speaking". In relief society, a few women said things like, "You are so nice to give a talk they never told you about." I didn't say anything. If that's what they got out of what he said, I'm fine with that! Oh, man. What a day. I'm glad that is over. This is like my worst fear!
Thursday, November 11, 2010
LOVE
I got my hair done at school on Tuesday night and it took FIVE HOURS!! It looks really good but really?? It is blonde with some dark copper woven in. Then Wednesday I woke up with a sore throat and headache out of no where! I kept getting sicker and I ony made it through a couple hours of school today. I'll save you the gross details but I have painful yellow spots on the back of my throat and not cough or congestion leading me to believe it's strep. If I am still this sick tomorrow, I will get it checked out for sure.
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Pictures!
Check more out here chelsyannphoto.blogspot.com.
Would ya look at that?... I made a link! I am so blogger smart... haha.
Friday, October 29, 2010
...and the corn stalk won.
We went to a scary corn maze with our friends Brent and Chelsy (who we floated down the river with a few months ago). I have never been to any kind of haunted house before because I get scared just watching CSI or any action movie! So it was really scary and fun and then this guy started running after me with a chain saw!!! I just took off running and he kept running with me and I ran straight into a wall of dried corn stalks! It knocked me over so I'm just huddled on the ground...crying! The scary guy runs over and asks if I'm okay and I said yes. After I got up he started after me again!! I just hid behind Jordan after that!! In the car they told me that the chain saw didn't have blades!! I wish I knew that!!
I will now start beauty school on Monday with a black eye...it's getting nice and swollen.
I fought the corn....and the corn won.
Post edit: Next day...awesome.
I love my husband!
Jordan: (dancing) Is it awkward I like this song?
Me: Welllll, who sings-
Jordan: (cuts me off) Katy Perry. (looks embarrassed)
Me: I laugh for ten minutes.
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
family, family, family!
McCall is coming to visit again this weekend! We have a fun trip planned! We are going to Lagoon on Friday to for their Halloween adventures! Saturday we have the BYU football game and then we are going to Jump on It, a giant trampline place later. If anyone wants to join us or wants to be added in our itinerary, just let me know! We can make time for you! :) I'm so nice.
Sunday, October 10, 2010
snip snip
Beehive
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
I miss my mom and dad!
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Weekend preview...
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Games and dessert...
We had my cousin Jimmy and his wife Kira over for games and pie last week...sensing a trend??
Marge and Homer
Jordan is such a good sport! Thank you for taking me to the fair!
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Costco
We are proud to be the newest members of Costco! I have wanted a card for a while because I work right next to Costco so I think it is convenient to put up food from there. I like a lot of their prepared food and would rather eat that for dinner at work (or for
The case of the misssing...everything Jordan touches
Idaho
I left my husband for two nights to take my baby sister up to school at BYU Idaho. It was fun to spend time with McCall and my parents! I was also able to meet up with my roommates, Beth, Kayla and her husband Beau. It was so fun to see my girls!! There has been a lot of construction on campus so it was fun to see some of the finished buildings! McCall had cute roommates that she seems to really like and I think she will do great there! I am glad I was able to take her up to school! Love you, Call! I don't know why I look so dumb and they look so good, but hey, love you two!
Spiders!
We have friends!!
A few days after we moved in, we had some friends over for a couples night!
Choo choo!
We live five houses away from some train tracks. I have never live close to train tracks and never had any real experience with trains like riding or putting pennies on the tracks. I still don’t know if I like being so close to the almost constant stream of trains. I think the sound is fun when I’m up and just waiting for Jordan to come home or something. I am not such a fan of the train when it wakes me up at night and in the morning! But we will be smashing pennies soon!
Bee Attack
Monday, August 30, 2010
New house!
St George
On our way back from the lake, we stopped in St George for Jordan's cousin, Clark's, mission farewell. Almost all of Jordan's extended family was there so we had a great time with them! They are so nice to me and make me feel so comfortable! We went to the Tuacahn theater to see Tarzan! It was really great!! We also played lots of games, went swimming, had a pizza party, and a farewell luncheon. Clark gave a great talk and we are so excited to him to leave on his mission to Brazil!
Jordan's uncle Ryan is in the play called Crazy for You! :)
Lake Mead
After Jordan's finals, packing our whole apartment, and moving boxes into our new house, we drove down to Vegas and met my family there for a fun week at the lake! What a welcome break! We stayed at a hotel in Henderson and drove to the lake everyday. We wake boarded, skied, and wake surfed! One night we went to the strip and Jordan ate steak tartar or something like that... completely uncooked steak! I had my favorite steak I've ever had! We also met my friends Sydney and Julia (and Julia's husband Shane) for dinner one night! It was so fun to see them and catch up on each other! I had so much fun seeing my family all week...I get homesick! Thanks mom and dad for the great trip!
Friday, August 13, 2010
moving
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Provo River float
We bought some tire inter tubes and went for a float down the Provo River. These are the tubes...they filled up the whole car! They wouldn't fit in the Focus! Brent and Chelsy invited us to go with them and it was a blast! The water was pretty cold but not too bad once you got used to it. It was a great way to enjoy nature and stay cool this summer!
Date night
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Nie Nie cont...
June 2009
A Mother’s Re-Invention
Stephanie Nielson, her husband and her husband’s flight instructor were flying home, from St. John’s, Arizona to Mesa, Arizona. The newspaper described the accident. Shortly, after taking off from the airport, the plane’s engine stalled and the C-177 Cardinal Cessna augured into the ground. The flight instructor, Doug Kinneard, died of his injuries the next day. Stephanie and her husband, Christian were critically burned.
Stephanie is a Latter-day Saint, as I am, but we had never met. She is my great-uncle’s grand-daughter making her my second cousin. I found out about Stephanie’s website on blogspot. I visited her blog: www.nieniedialogues.blogspot.com. It is her personal website that allowed her to make regular entries about her life. I began to learn about her life and her family, though the two were really not separate.
As I went to Stephanie’s blog, I discovered that her writings were very popular and that her blog had had over 1,000 visits each day before the accident. She was widely known in the blogging community as she wrote upbeat notes about marriage, decorating, entertaining, and parenting.
She was known as Nie Nie on her blog. This blog helped me begin to know Stephanie. Most of her entries were about her young children. There was Claire Elizabeth (7 ½ ), Jane Bronwyn (6), Oliver Christian (4) and Nicholas Jones (2 ½ ). Stephanie had written, “I am fortunate to have two of each (sex). Each child brings a different forte to our family. Each one has a very unique life with different ideas.”
Stephanie explained how she thought that each of her children symbolized a different color, and together, their colors blend into a rainbow to, “use these colors and lights to make a very peaceful, active, and very blissful home. I am so lucky I was given these children.”
Her love for parenting, for her husband and for life was inspiring to many readers. You could see this in their comments on her posts. They felt inspired, and I felt inspired. When I interviewed her and asked what her favorite thing was in being a mother, she responded simply, “being needed.” Her greatest joy was in helping her children to blossom. She wrote that she loved being able to stay at home with her children, so that she could be the best possible mother she could, in today’s world.
These four children have a wonderful and caring mother, who teaches them crucial lessons through everyday activities. On one particular afternoon, Stephanie and the children wrote anonymous notes of wisdoms on strips of paper. They then drove around town and left the notes in secret hiding places, where a passerby would later discover the insight. The notes said things such as, “God loves you,” or, “someone loves you,” or, “Rainbows love you.” Her children had continued on their journey of learning to be kind to others. The importance of kindness and love was inculcated into the children through innumerable other acts of family kindness.
Often, the Nielson family had a get together with their extended family. These fortunate children have gotten to know their extended family very well, much better than I have, and they know the important role that family plays in one’s life. They have learned this lesson through opportunities to be close to their family. Stephanie had given her children these valuable teaching examples by being the kind of person they can look up to.
Now, it has come back to her. Stephanie remembers the plane crash that left 80% of her body burned, and she says, “I remember, as our plane violently crashed to the ground, I tucked my head down on my knees and prayed. Then I was not alone. I felt rather calm in a … troubled moment that seemed to last forever. The plane spun and whistled downward and in my heart I saw my children. I saw them as they laughed. I saw them smiling. It was calming that in such a terrible moment, I had a reminder of the peace of my family. I was not alone then. And I am certainly not alone now!”
The plane crashed into a pile of wood that was lying near several houses. Stephanie went on to explain how she was saved by her husband. She says, “…he saved my life; he opened the airplane door, which was on fire, and he cleared a path for me even though he had a broken back. It was heroic and knightly. He was motivated by love. He found his way to safety and looked back only to realize that I was not following.” Stephanie says that they yelled for one another and soon after, she was able to find her way out of the flames and wreckage.
Her husband, Christian, awoke from a coma about a month after the crash in the Arizona Burn Center. Stephanie was able to awake from her coma about a month after Christian. She said that her family relied heavily upon their faith in the Gospel of Jesus the Christ, just to make their way through their difficult times.
Stephanie has recovered. Not completely, but she has improved so much. She still has trouble with her hands because the tendons were burnt. She can’t cook. She can’t do Jane’s or Claire’s hair yet. She can’t button Nicholas’ or Ollie’s shirts for Church. Stephanie has faith that at some point in the future, after her next operation—and there have been so many and will be so many more—that she will be able to use her hands again. For now, though, she does what she can to be the wife and mother she intends.
At first, her children had difficulty in trying to understand how badly their parents had been hurt in the accident. They had a particularly hard time understanding why their mother could not do all that she had done before. The second oldest child, Jane, was the most deeply troubled. After about five months in the hospital, Stephanie received a visit from Jane, who was then 5 years old. She had come to see her “new” mother for the first time. Jane was not prepared for the change, and she would not look at her mother again for two more months. “These were the hardest days of my life,” Stephanie told me.
Moms don’t want to scare their children. Moms don’t like seeing their children hurt and confused. At least moms like Stephanie don’t. But her children, as she says, “…stepped up since the accident. They are very therapeutic and engaging for me. I need their love and their need of me, to help me heal. I just hope I can make them feel as safe and secure as they do for me!”
As her children understand more and more of what happened, they still have their struggles. They wonder why their mother was hurt. They don’t understand what made the plane crash. One evening, just before bedtime, Stephanie says that she called her two daughters into her room and they jumped into bed with her. Stephanie explained to her two girls how sorry she was that the plane had crashed and she began to cry.
As Claire stroked Stephanie’s hair in a gentle manner, Jane squeezed her arms around her mother. No words were exchanged, just silent tears flowed between them. After some time, Stephanie had her girls and her make a “pinkie promise,” that Stephanie would never let anything upset their happy family again. Stephanie says that the girls smiled. Some would say that they smiled with the relief of little children, but I prefer to believe that they smiled for more. Their mom was back to being mom. Stephanie then told her daughters that their Father in Heaven loved them and she explained that He has “big plans” for their family, so they should not worry about the future. Stephanie then said that Jane looked at her and asked, “Is that why the airplane fell out of the sky? Did He do that?”
Stephanie says that she was confused by the question because she had not yet found the answer to it for herself. She says that she only found the answer when she told her daughter that people fix planes and make mistakes, but Heavenly Father makes miracles. He saved their lives and that was part of the beginning of the big plan for their family. Their family is in the middle of that plan now, and it will get easier. It has to get easier.
Stephanie and Christian continue to heal. There are still challenges. There are still tender and precious moments. The two of them have matching flesh colored gloves on their hands during the day, and wear clear plastic face-masks to bed every night. Stephanie has been able to gain some weight and is now up to 113 pounds. Her hair is growing back in swatches. What had once been beautiful and pure skin now is traced with pink and sometimes angry scars. Her naturally freckled face is concealed by transplanted skin. But she still has sparkling green eyes and they remind her of who she is, was, and will be in the future—even if the scars on her skin never disappear.
She is also my hero, but mostly, she is a hero to her children. She says that sometimes she regrets what she lost in the fire, but she also says she doesn’t feel that way as often now that she is back home with her family. She expects there will come that day when she will dimly recall when she struggled to do the simple things. She appreciates the simplest motherly tasks more now than she ever imagined before the plane fell out of the sky. She tells me, and she writes in her blog, that the longing for what she lost has been numbed by the delight she feels, when she is with her children and they approach her again—without fear of the changes to her appearance.
At least, that’s what she tells me.
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
I met Nie Nie
Saturday, July 24, 2010
worlds largest water balloon fight
We didn't get any pics all wet or in our t shirts, but it was super fun!
Check out the full story here...
http://www.fox13now.com/news/local/kstu-byu-world-record-largest-balloon-fight-ever,0,6359724.story
Nickle Archade
Dress drab
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Y hike
Friday, July 16, 2010
A laugh
This is when Jordan came home for Easter I think and Zach opened his call! I was looking through pictures and was thinking "Who is that small child hugging Jordan" Oh, ya, me, his wife! haha.
Hahaha... Oh man! This picture needs a frame! All of Jordan's favorite women...
Or at least we like to think so!
FLASHBACK...honeymoon
Breakfast in Playa del Carmen our first morning there. We had so much fun trying to figure our the street systems and language and customs all week. It was great!We just walked down the street after breakfast to the beach. The water here was so so clear! It was beautiful!I like him! I know, I bet your are all glad this picture turned out! :)
This one is not a camera malfunction, it was just so humid, the camera fogged up! We are in the jungle right outside our resort, which was AMAZING! Thanks Geneva!
Still foggy! haha..
In the rental car! We loved driving ourselves everywhere! Jordan was a pro on the sometimes scary tiny streets! And the AC was heaven!!
We went to Talum ruins and these guys were waiting at the entrance for people to take pictures with them. One takes your camera to take the picture...and you get your camera back for five dollars! Oh brother! The pictures turned out at least!!
Jordan and our Mormon tour guide! We had a fun hot HOT tour of the ruins!Jordan barely fit through some of the walkways!This is the only decent picture we got of ruins! I guess we will just have to go back for more pictures!
We went swimming down there right after the tour! The water felt so good!This is on our way back to the resort after swimming in Talum.
We took a ferry out to Cozumel, then this is on our snorkeling boat! Our boat was sooo slow! But more time on the cool ocean, I guess! :)
We rented a scooter on Cozumel after snorkeling and we drove around the entire island! It was so fun! Along a lot of the drive, we were right next to the beach!
That's all the pictures that turned out! We had so much fun! Thanks Jay and Geneva!